As I stated in a previous post(here) there are reasons why this won't be about sex. It is going to be about really pleasing a woman. Not too long ago I was fishing with a group. A couple of guys were grousing about women anchors on ESPN, sports being the last bastion of male dominance or so they thought. One fellow said "Women, we wouldn't even talk to them if they didn't have....", here I apologize for the vulgarity but I felt it necessary to my point. I told the man he really was a complete moron and went back to the water. Still his comment has stuck in my craw since then. Perhaps he was only joking, and didn't think that way.Trying to be macho and all that. Stupid thing to say in front of a father of three girls. I also remember my sister-in-law's first husband saying to her" That's OK her doesn't have to be smart, her pretty". She replied with a body shot that would have made "Smokin' Joe" Frazier proud. As I said first husband. So why is it some men just don't get it? Don't know. I do have a few ideas that if you keep reading you'll hear. Do woman want to be treated like sex objects? Yes, but only by the man they feel the same way about. Not by Leering Larry when they smile at him and say excuse me in the Starbucks line. Do women want to be your equal? No they want to be your partner sharing her strengths with yours. Well then wise guy, how do they want to be treated ? Just like you do pal. Like the person they are. Not classified as anything, just themselves.Not your pet or rival. And above all else remember Spencer Tracy's last line in "Adam's Rib" ......"Viva le Difference"
p.s. as I always say, like I know anything.
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